FREAK’N SEE Podcast

This week on Freak’N See, we sit down with Cortez (@muscle_beast93) for an honest conversation about ABDL Adult Baby & Diaper Lover.
We’re breaking down what ABDL actually means, the difference between ABDL and age play, and why this community is often misunderstood. We talk about vulnerability, comfort, relationships, consent, intimacy, stigma, and what it’s like navigating ABDL within the kink community as a person of color.
Cortez also shares his personal journey discovering ABDL, how he came to understand and embrace this part of himself, and what he wishes people knew about the person behind the kink.
🎙️ Watch Freak’N See every Monday!
🔥 New conversations. Real experiences. Kinks you may be curious about but afraid to ask about.
📲 Follow Cortez: @muscle_beast93
 
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🔥 ROAD TO IML 🔥
In this episode of Freak’N See, we sit down with Honey Davenport for an intimate conversation about his journey on the Road to International Mr. Leather (IML).
Honey takes us behind the scenes of his preparation for the competition, sharing the work, discipline, vulnerability, and intention that went into the journey. But this conversation goes far beyond the competition.
We talk about what it means to be a Leather man, the influence and responsibility that comes with being a leader in the community, and why Leather is about so much more than what you wear.
From service and mentorship to representation, community, identity, and impact, Honey shares his perspective on what it truly means to carry the Leather title and use your platform to make a difference.
🖤 What does it really mean to be a Leather man?
🏆 What does it take to prepare for IML?
🌈 How can Leather leadership create meaningful change in our communities?
 
Join us for Road to IML with Honey Davenport.
 
🎙️ FREAK’N SEE — Road to IML
Featuring Honey Davenport
Follow Honey Davenport: @honeydavenportofficial 
 
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🔥 FREAK’N SEE — SEASON 3: DEVIANT 🔥
We’re kicking off Season 3 with Micah Marquez, creator of DEVIANT, talking about the creation of DEVIANT, Black queer community, kink, sex positivity, and his vision for social and sexual liberation.
We talk about how DEVIANT was created, why these spaces are important, and Micah’s vision for helping the Black queer community become more socially and sexually liberated.
But this conversation goes WAY beyond nightlife.
💬 We get into:
• The origin story of DEVIANT
• Creating intentional spaces for Black & Brown queer people
• Sex positivity vs. hypersexualization
• Darkrooms, consent & safer sex
• Body positivity and queer beauty standards
• Kink, sexual liberation & education
• The importance of Black queer nightlife
• Building friendships, relationships & community
• Queer joy as an act of liberation
• DEVIANT’s growth across the country
• Micah’s vision for the future of DEVIANT
 
🎙️ Episode: DEVIANT
📅 Monday, August 10
Follow:
👤 @micah_marquez
🖤 @deviantevents
🖤 @_counter_culture
🖤 @_thecollectivenyc
 
🔥 DEVIANT: DUNGEON — THIS SATURDAY! 🔥
 
📍 Washington, DC
📅 Saturday, August 15
🎟️ Tickets: https://posh.vip/e/dc-dungeon--1
 
Come experience the culture. Come meet your community. Come get liberated. 🖤 #FreakNSee #FreakNSeePodcast #Deviant #DeviantEvents #DeviantDungeon #DungeonDC #MicahMarquez #BlackQueer #QueerLiberation #SexPositive #QueerKink

This week we sit down with dating coach J Lamar (@iamjlamar) for one of our realest conversations yet as we dive deep into intentional dating, kink, fetish exploration, sexual honesty, and navigating relationships in the BDSM/kink community with purpose.
Too many people are dating for aesthetics, titles, or validation instead of true alignment. In this episode, we unpack:🔥 Dating with intentionality🔥 Sexual compatibility vs emotional compatibility🔥 Why POC communities struggle with shame around kink🔥 Respectability politics & hiding desires🔥 Entry-level kinks for beginners🔥 Navigating relationships with different kink levels🔥 Communication, boundaries & consent🔥 Why people ignore sexual incompatibility🔥 Learning to fully own your desires without shame
This conversation gets honest, vulnerable, educational, and necessary — especially for people trying to navigate the kink dating scene while still protecting their emotional health and authenticity.
Whether you’re curious, experienced, questioning, or simply tired of surface-level dating conversations, this episode is for you.
🎙️ Watch now, subscribe, and join the conversation.Welcome to FREAK’N SEE — where sexuality, kink, and intentional connection meet without shame.
#FreaknSee #KinkDating #BDSMCommunity #BlackQueerVoices #DatingWithIntention

This week we’re diving deep into the world of flogging with special guest Master Sango (@1sangorh) 🖤⛓️
This isn’t just a conversation about impact play it’s about technique, trust, consent, power, history, and what it means to navigate BDSM as Black and POC kinksters. We unpack the art of flogging, the difference between pain and pleasure, safety, aftercare, and the emotional realities that come with impact play in our community.
From reclaiming narratives tied to historical trauma to creating intentional kink spaces rooted in consent and communication, this episode is raw, educational, and necessary.
Whether you’re curious about BDSM, experienced in kink, or trying to better understand the psychology and culture behind impact play this episode is for you.
Topics include:⛓️ Flogging basics & safety🖤 Consent & power exchange🪶 Different types of floggers🔥 Pain vs pleasure psychology✊🏾 Black perspectives in BDSM🕰️ History, trauma & reclamation🤝 Trust, negotiation & aftercare
Tap in, learn something new, and join the conversation.
#FreakNSee #BDSM #Flogging #BlackKink #LeatherCommunity #ImpactPlay #GayPodcast #BlackGayMen #KinkEducation #ConsentMatters #POCKink #MasterSango #LeatherCulture #QueerPodcast #Aftercare

The wave is here and it’s not asking for permission.
In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with MXTER XERO RULZ (@mxter_xero) to talk about the rise of the femboy and what it really means beyond the aesthetic. From internet visibility to real-life kink spaces, we unpack how femininity in men is being redefined, desired, challenged and sometimes misunderstood.
We get into:
🔥 Why femboys are gaining so much attention right now
💅 The difference between identity, expression, and assumption
🖤 Navigating hyper-masculine kink & leather spaces
⚡ Power dynamics, vulnerability, and control
🧠 Breaking the grip masculinity has had on desirability
🌈 Building community and creating new spaces
😏 And yeah… why femboys got everybody watching right now
This conversation is about more than trends it’s about agency, visibility, and redefining power on your own terms.
If you’ve ever questioned what femininity looks like in men… or why it challenges people so deeply… this one’s for you.
🎙 Welcome to FREAK’N SEE where kink, culture, and connection meet with intention. #FreakNSee #Femboy #KinkCommunity #BlackGayVoices #Masculinity #QueerCulture #PolyLife #SexPositive #LGBTQPodcast #DMVEvents

“How much is TOO much?” 😏
This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting into the comments… and whew, y’all had A LOT to say 👀
After Jamel (@kxng_jayy97) shared his weekend experience, the internet did what it does best—judge, project, and get all up in somebody else’s business. So we had to talk about it.
Was it really “too much”… or just too honest? 🤔Why does sexual freedom make people uncomfortable?And why do folks act like they’re the CEO of someone else’s life? 😭
We’re unpacking:🔥 Oversharing vs. living in your truth👀 The judgment (especially in POC spaces)💬 Why people project their own fears + desires🌱 What safe, intentional, and FREE actually looks like
At the end of the day… if you’re happy, safe, and honest—who really gets to decide what’s “too much”? 👀
Tap in, join the conversation, and tell us:Are people mad… or just not that free yet? 😏
🎧 New episode of FREAK’N SEE out now — link in bio💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments (keep it cute… or at least honest)
#FreakNSee #SexPositive #POCKink #SexualFreedom #NoJudgment #BeFree #PodcastClips #BlackGayVoices #OpenConversations

Guest: Lamb (@lookdeeper | @wearefrolic)
This week on FREAK’N SEE, we’re getting real about the POC experience in gay nightlife the highs, the shadows, and everything in between.
From navigating spaces where you feel invisible… to being hyper-visible in ways that don’t feel human we’re unpacking the truths a lot of people don’t say out loud.
🔥 We talk about:• The emotional toll of code-switching in queer spaces• Racism disguised as “preference”• Fetishization vs. real desire• The unspoken hierarchies in nightlife & kink culture• Why so many POC men feel like they have to “take a gamble” every time they go out
And then we shift the conversation…
✨ What happens when you build something better?
Lamb takes us inside the vision behind Frolic Weekend a space intentionally created for queer & trans men of color to feel:✔️ Safe✔️ Desired✔️ Seen✔️ Connected
This isn’t just nightlife… this is community, healing, and liberation in motion.
From panels and kink education to yoga and intentional social spaces—Frolic is redefining what it means to gather.
 
💭 If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t fully belong in queer spaces… this episode is for you.
 
🎧 Tap in now & join the conversation🔗 Link in bio
🎟️ Don’t forget: Use code FREAKNSEE for 20% off your Frolic Weekend ticket
 
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Integrated Play Spaces  
What happens when kink spaces stop separating us… and start integrating us?
This episode gets deep into multi-gender, multi-sexuality play spaces where boundaries, power, identity, and desire all collide in real time. We’re unpacking what it really means to share erotic space across differences… and what it takes to do it safely, consciously, and respectfully.
🎙️ Featuring special guest: Goddexx Symphonee (@mx.symphonee)
We talk:🔥 What “integrated” kink spaces actually look like🔥 Navigating consent, bias, and body politics🔥 Black kink community dynamics across gender & sexuality🔥 The tension, the truth, and the unspoken rules🔥 How to enter these spaces without losing yourself
This isn’t just about sex — it’s about unlearning, reclaiming, and redefining community.
💭 Would YOU attend a multi-gender kink space?
👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments🔁 Share with someone who needs this conversation🔔 Subscribe for more real, unfiltered dialogue
#FreaknSee #KinkTalk #BlackKink #ConsentCulture #SexPositive #PodcastClips #EroticFreedom #QueerCommunity #BDSMConversations #UnlearnAndRelearn

🖤 CHEMSEX 🖤
This week on FREAK’N SEE, we get REAL with special guest David Brandyn (@davidbrandyn), host of Butch Queen After Dark, as we dive deep into the unspoken rules, racial dynamics, and raw realities of dark rooms and chemsex culture.
From navigating consent in the dark… to the pressure to “keep up”… to the ways Black & Brown bodies are desired, dismissed, and fetishized—nothing is off limits.
We’re talking:🔥 Dark room etiquette & who gets excluded🔥 Consent vs assumption in sexual spaces🔥 Microaggressions & racialized desire🔥 Chemsex, escapism & survival🔥 Power, safety & community accountability🔥 Reclaiming pleasure without losing yourself
This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a wake-up call.
🎙️ Guest: David Brandyn (@davidbrandyn)🎧 Podcast: Butch Queen After Dark https://www.youtube.com/@DavidBrandyn
.TUNE IN EVERY MONDAY — NEW EPISODE...#FreaknSee #DarkRoomTalk #ChemsexConversations #BlackQueerVoices #POCQueer #KinkCommunity #QueerPodcast #ButchQueenAfterDark #SexPositive #ConsentMatters #QueerCulture #GayBlackMen #PleasureWithPurpose